Posts Tagged ‘Wedding Ideas’

Wedding Tip of the Day by Apotheca Flower Shoppe

Monday, February 15th, 2010

Today’s wedding tip of the day comes from New Hampshire floral designer, Apotheca Flower Shoppe.  Apotheca Flower Shoppe shares a tip for a more informal morning wedding bouquet.

Using smaller, busier textures leads to a more relaxed, informal bouquet. In this case, the chamomile, lady’s mantle, and scabiosa, work with the roses to create an elegant, but “casual garden” feel.  This design mix is echoed again with the textile choices in the bouquet wrap–white satin with twine.

Wedding Tip of the Day by Apotheca Flower Shoppe

Check out the full expert advice article at my Kate Parker Wedding

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Involving the Groom: Brian Leahy and “The Stranger Groom”

Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010

This week, Brian Leahy is featured discussing his new found camaraderie with a “stranger groom” in my Kate Parker Wedding series, Involving the Groom.  Let’s skip a lengthy introduction since the amazing-ness of this grooms writing speaks for itself.  So dive right in and enjoy!

FROM ACROSS THE ROOM

So it doesn’t play out quite like that old song — the one where the guy is alone at a party, meets someone’s eyes across the room and pushes through the sea of bodies to meet somewhere in the middle — but we grooms do tend to find other grooms at social functions. It’s instinctual. In the manliest of ways, we seek out other grooms.

Meeting a fellow groom at The Room bar in Hollywood last night, I realized that grooms have a connection that transcends that of “best buds” or “homies” or “BFFs.” This stranger groom and I shared one strong common bond: we are both knee-deep in these chaotic wed-ventures spearheaded by the two women standing beside us. We’re interconnected in that way.

Amongst other things, we joked about the 10-Second Rule, also known as the Commercial Break Rule: if a bride senses at least a 10-second window (whether you’re driving, showering, shaving, moving furniture or handling smoldering hot metals), they will jump in with a wedding-related topic. Similarly, it happens at nearly every commercial break, between bites at dinner and that precise moment when you climb into bed, pull the covers over you and completely shut down.

“Honey, while I have you here, tell me what you’re thinking for ceremony music.”

The same rule applies to Gmail Chat, Skype or any other internet-based conferencing service. It may take 5X as long to type out the conversation, but no matter. It’s now off of her shoulders and onto your plate.

Stranger groom and I both knew that this chance meeting had somehow rescued the evening. There was a new-found camaraderie. A sense of brotherhood. We laughed. We cried. We clinked glasses of overpriced beer and then carried on with our lives, wishing each other (above anything else) luck. And when my 2E’s took the 40-second walk to the car to discuss whether or not our mothers should wear corsages at the wedding ceremony, I had the strength to nod and smile. Thanks stranger groom.

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Industry Icon – David Beahm Design

Friday, November 13th, 2009

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We have been fortunate enough to work with David and his team on a some New England weddings over the past few years and I can’t put into words how amazing he is to work with.  David is one of the most talented and well-known floral and event designers in our industry and he was so accommodating to our clients and down to earth that it was an absolute pleasure doing business with his team.  I am thrilled to be starting our Industry Icons blog series with David Beahm Designs.  You will be thrilled as well when you read his interview and see some of his incredible work.  Enjoy the new series!

KP

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KP: What is your favorite part of the wedding process?

DB: My favorite moment is stealthfully stealing the bride away from cocktail hour and leading her hand-in-hand to see the finished dinner space with the lighting focused and all the candles lit.  Watching her face as the doors open makes me so happy.

KP: What do you love most about your job in the wedding industry?

DB: I think all of us in this industry are in it to make people happy – so the industry is full of really great people with which to socialize, which makes working with them a breeze.  The mantra at David Beahm Design is we only hire nice people and we only work with nice people.  It’s a celebration, so the process should be a wonderful experience.

KP: What is the biggest misconception about your industry?

DB: The biggest misconception about our industry is that we are out to get rich off of one party.  It’s not rocket science, but the professional services we provide are extraordinarily detailed and take a tremendous amount of time, organization to execute, and experience.  We allow people to enjoy their big day and not be bogged down in the detailed minutia that make a wonderful wedding but it takes an army of people to make it happen – ON TIME.  I make sure that I hire the best designers available, pay them well, feed them well, and create a good working experience so that the product we give the happy couple is a reflection of that.  But as we all know, labor is a most expensive commodity and it adds up fast.  Yes, certainly our goal is to make a profit and sustain our business, but a LOT of the client’s money flows right back out into the economy.  I encourage my clients to look at their weddings like their very own stimulus package!

KP: How did you get into the wedding industry?

DB: My mom is an artist, my dad was in hotel/restaurant, my godparents own a flower shop and I was in theatre – I think it was destiny!

KP: Tell me one wedding vendor other than in your industry you highly recommend and why?

DB: Mark Ingram at the Bridal Atelier by Mark Ingram is just about the nicest guy you could ever meet and so talented and HONEST about what you look like in a dress – if it’s not right, he’ll tell you – what could be more valuable than that?

KP: Tell me one wedding vendor in your industry you highly recommend and why?

DB: Ed Libby and I have become really good friends and maintain a mutual admiration society, at times even recommending our clients to each other.  I’ve been in a consultation and said, “You have to go see Ed.  He’s the one for you!” And Ed’s done the same thing for me.  There’s no ego; it’s just about getting the right fit and making the client happy at the end of the day.

KP:  Favorite wedding story – funny or serious.

DB: A good friend got married in Central Park.  It was the perfect spring day, the bride and groom’s parties strolled from opposite sides of the park and met at the bandstand where, just perchance, a band was playing “Seasons of Love” as we all came together.  After an absolutely beautiful, tear-jerking ceremony, the groom had arranged a surprise: a marching band playing really wonderful, funky music came around the corner as they were pronounced husband and wife.   The band then led everyone to the Bethesda Fountain where we danced.  At that point a gondolier pulled up on the pond and took the bride and groom on a ride around the boat basin as we continued to have a great time. It was perfect and so unique.

KP:  What other part of the industry would you not want to work in? Why?

DB: Have you ever visited the beading room at Kleinfeld?  I would not be even a little pleasant after even one hour of adjusting the beading on a dress . . . god bless those ladies.

KP: What differentiates you from the rest of your industry peers?

DB: You are not a customer when you join us.  You become part of the family.  I can’t tell you how many mothers are trying to fix me up…

Industry Genius- David Beahm

David designed the first wedding we worked on together with these incredible hanging floating candles and flowers.  They look like they’re just floating in mid-air.  I remember my client’s face when she walked into her reception and looked up at the installation. Unbelievable.

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Now, I’ve seen some Huppahs in my life, but seriously? David doesn’t miss a beat- from the lighting, custom fabric installations, and intricate floral designs. Quite the wow factor.

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He’s so innovative.  Most of the items David works with are custom designed for each client, ensuring they have a completely unique wedding experience.  Aren’t those lighting and candle features amazing?!

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Some brides want a lot of flowers to make their wow factor statement, so I had to show this ridiculous (in a good way) Huppah made entirely of white flowers.  Complete with uplighting, what a dramatic statement for a ceremony!