Posts Tagged ‘Wedding’

Wedding Tip of the Day: Avid Entertainment

Wednesday, March 17th, 2010

The DJ of your wedding is a more important role than you may think.  Massachusetts and New Hampshire wedding DJ, Avid Entertainment, shares some insight as to what DJ’s do in addition to the music.

The true job of your DJ is to quarterback the entire reception.  Think about this:  You are being introduced into the hall and being announced to the world for the first time as husband and wife.  Your probably thinking all the DJ has to worry about it not messing up the pronunciation of the names and hitting “play” on the equipment. This is true, but the majority of what a great Wedding DJ will do for you happens before he even turns on the microphone.

Before you are introduced, a true Wedding DJ has done the following:

  • Spoken with the banquet hall coordinator to find out if the meal is running on time.  There is nothing worse than having the bride and groom introduced, the first dance take place, the toasts be given and then there is a gap of time because the meal is not ready. Guests get bored and it puts a damper on things. If the DJ finds out that the meal is running 30 minutes behind (it happens), he can inform the bride and groom and have them go take some photographs that were going to be done after dinner… READ MORE

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Vermont Wedding by Orchard Cove on Style Me Pretty

Wednesday, March 17th, 2010

We’re always excited to see the work of my Kate Parker Wedding members being featured throughout the wedding industry, especially this wedding captured by Vermont wedding photographer, Orchard Cove Photography, which was recently featured on Style Me Pretty!

more photos from this wedding | more weddings by Orchard Cove Photography

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Black and White with Blue Hues: Vintage Inspiration

Wednesday, March 17th, 2010

For an elegant and vintage look, this black and white inspiration is accompanied with some blue hues.  Adding a bit of color with a black and white theme can be the perfect touch to creating a great color scheme for your wedding.  Check out more inspiration at my Kate Parker Wedding.

Vendors (couter clockwise starting at the top): Val McCormick Photography | Kristin Spencer Photography and Details Wedding Planning | Val McCormick Photography | Occassions Bridal & Tuxedo and Brea McDonald Photography | Kristin Spencer Photography | MAC Photography | Cookie Creatives by Jennifer | Jubilee Events

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Brian Leahy’s Practical Tip #2

Wednesday, March 17th, 2010

Today, Brian Leahy shares another practical tip!  His first tip: send your groom away.  His second tip: well, I think it speaks for itself.  Brian’s humor shines through yet again as he shares his second practical tip with my Kate Parker Wedding.

PRACTICAL TIP #2: METROSEXUAL-IZE, or HOW TO BRAINWASH YOUR GROOM

It’s 2010. As your trusty women’s magazines have surely already informed you, men are no longer the “emotionally unavailable” counterpart in every relationship. We’re more open. More vulnerable. We’re more inclined to feel stuff. We shower.

Baby steps.

And the best thing you can do — especially during the long, grueling wedding planning process — is encourage and support us during our metamorphosis. Think of us as seedlings that need tending to. Or children. Yes. OK. Children it is.

Mark Davidson

Photography courtesy of Mark Davidson

THE CLOTHES

We’re wearing big boy pants now, so help us take the next big leap and get us into a more fashionable state of mind. Accompany your man on a Saturday outing to some trendy, men’s only clothing stores (key words: MEN’S and ONLY) and help him find a few new metrosexual ensembles that don’t compromise his manliness. Not only will he be dressing and looking better on a daily basis (a nice bonus for you, brides), but he may also learn to develop his own opinions about his wedding attire.

Yes, ladies, that means you get to delegate some responsibility. He gets to pick out his tie, and you get to cross one thing off your to-do list. It’s true wedding harmony.

THE STATE OF MIND

Believe it or not, there are ways to get your groom to start “thinking wedding” without polluting the rack in the bathroom with bridal magazines. (Trust me — he’s not reading them.)

The next time you and your groom attend a wedding of a friend or cousin or co-worker, be sure to pull him aside and ask him what he thinks of the design, the look, the colors, their choices. Did he like the centerpieces, or were they too much? Would he prefer something monochromatic? Less rustic? More subtle? Does he want to do something equally clever with the escort cards, or does he prefer a simpler, classier display? What did he enjoy about the wedding, and what would he have done differently?

And if you’re not planning on attending any nuptials in the next few months, ask your groom to walk you through the wedding that he envisions, step-by-step. He may resist at first, so begin with his likes and dislikes. If there’s one thing a groom can contribute without too much pressure, it’s his shortlist of DOs and DO NOTs. “DO have ceremony music. NOT from a dusty church organ. DO have sliders during cocktails. NOT just the vegetarian kind.”

THE EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT

Let’s be honest, ladies. Not every element in a wedding demands a conversation or an email or a headache. Some things can be accomplished simply and easily, and thank god for those rare but wonderful moments.

What’s important is that you communicate with your groom, be honest, and tell him which elements ARE important to you. If the invite design is keeping you up at night, let your groom know that it’s something you’re struggling with and that you’d like his input — particularly on this one design element. If it’s important to you, we’re more likely to get invested.

Yes, it’s manipulative, but we won’t hold it against you. Unless you abuse your power. Don’t, for instance, tell your groom that your ceremony footwear requires his immediate attention. He will call you on it. And I will say I told you so.

Now go on, brides. Get moving. Go metrosexual-ize. After all, our metamorphosis won’t happen overnight.

- Brian Leahy from The Groom Says -


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The Cost of Wedding Photography – A Photographer Series, part 4

Tuesday, March 16th, 2010

Welcome to the fourth installment of the my Kate Parker Wedding photography series!  If you’re new to this series, we have been discussing the many reasons why wedding photographers charge so much for their services.  We know what it’s like to salivate over samples of work from a particular photographer, and then to feel confused and shocked when you discover the price.  We don’t want you to feel ripped off, so we asked some of the best photographers to break down their costs for us.  So far, we’ve talked about Education/Experience, Marketing/Advertising, and Engagement Sessions.  Today, we’ll cover…

EQUIPMENT

We all know that the world of photography has drastically changed in the last decade.  Instead of shooting with rolls of film, everything is now digital.  Many people assume that equipment and processing costs have gone down since there’s no more rolls of film to process and everything is done on a computer.  Connecticut wedding photographer, Bruce Plotkin says this is a myth because:

“In the “film” days you could buy a professional camera with a few good lenses and if you took good care of them they could last you for ten years or more.  Today, if you’re lucky, the life span of a high end digital professional camera is three years.  And it doesn’t end there…the lenses keep getting better as well and are just as important (and often just as expensive) as the best cameras.  A photographer without the best and most current camera and lenses is simply not able to give the bride and groom the best results possible.”

So exactly how much is a professional camera and lenses going for these days?  Savannah wedding photographer, Scott Hopkins breaks it down for us:

“Professional grade digital cameras begin around $2,000 and go up to about $8,000.  Most professional lenses range in price from $1,200 to $2,500.  There are specialty lenses that a few wedding photographers use that cost upwards of $5,000.”

New Hampshire and Vermont wedding photographer, Paige Hiller also touches on this expense:

“Never the less, most photographers invest $3,000 to purchase a camera body and another $2,000 for a professional level lens.  Then consider, that in most professional wedding photographer’s camera bags you will find at least 2 camera bodies, 3 lens, 2 flash units and a tripod.  On average that little black bag that you see an assistant carrying could be an investment of $15,000.00.”

Unfortunately, a photographer’s costs don’t stop with cameras and lenses.  In addition, they need flashes, batteries, memory cards, backups and repairs; laptops, desktops, external hard drives, computer software, and websites to post proofing galleries, according to New Hampshire wedding photographer, Matthew Lomanno. For some photographers, “It is very rare to find great professional labs throughout the country,” say Paige Hiller.  Furthermore, she explains:

“Yes, they are still there, mostly in cosmopolitan areas, but if you live in Vermont like I do, they are getting harder to find.  Therefore, the majority of photographers do their own post production work. In order to set up a digital darkroom, you need a computer, computer programs to support your processing, and a color calibrator for your monitor, external hard drive to store your images, and a printer.

The costs can range from $10,000 and up to set up your basic digital darkroom.  And depending on if your photographer is set up as an archival studio the numbers will only increase.  For example, most cd/DVD that you buy on the consumer level will last maybe 3 to 5 years and then all those images will disappear.  However, if you purchase gold archival cd/DVD’s they will last at least 100 years.  A gold archival disc is made with a layer of gold that your images are imbedded in; this layer of metal prevents the images from disappearing over time as does the silver in the emulsion of film.”

Finally, Bruce Plotkin says it best as he emphasizes the importance of quality equipment when he says:  “The creative edge that the best equipment gives a talented shooter can make all the difference in the world with the end result.”

image above by Bruce Plotkin

image above by Scott Hopkins Photographer

image above by Paige Hiller Photography

image by Matthew Lomanno Photography

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A Modern Inspiration

Tuesday, March 16th, 2010

Whether it’s a single orchid floating in water or a cascade of orchids decorating a cake, orchids and modern are a perfect match.  Check out today’s modern inspiration or visit the my Kate Parker Wedding Galleries for more!

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images above by:  Parrott Design Studio | Sharyn Peavey Photography | Something Sweet by Michelle | Kristin Spencer Photography | Apotheca Flower Shoppe, Brea McDonald Photography | MAC Photography | Concept Photography | Panache Weddings & Events

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