Posts Tagged ‘D.C. weddings’

Black and White with Blue Hues: Vintage Inspiration

Wednesday, March 17th, 2010

For an elegant and vintage look, this black and white inspiration is accompanied with some blue hues.  Adding a bit of color with a black and white theme can be the perfect touch to creating a great color scheme for your wedding.  Check out more inspiration at my Kate Parker Wedding.

Vendors (couter clockwise starting at the top): Val McCormick Photography | Kristin Spencer Photography and Details Wedding Planning | Val McCormick Photography | Occassions Bridal & Tuxedo and Brea McDonald Photography | Kristin Spencer Photography | MAC Photography | Cookie Creatives by Jennifer | Jubilee Events

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Brian Leahy’s Practical Tip #2

Wednesday, March 17th, 2010

Today, Brian Leahy shares another practical tip!  His first tip: send your groom away.  His second tip: well, I think it speaks for itself.  Brian’s humor shines through yet again as he shares his second practical tip with my Kate Parker Wedding.

PRACTICAL TIP #2: METROSEXUAL-IZE, or HOW TO BRAINWASH YOUR GROOM

It’s 2010. As your trusty women’s magazines have surely already informed you, men are no longer the “emotionally unavailable” counterpart in every relationship. We’re more open. More vulnerable. We’re more inclined to feel stuff. We shower.

Baby steps.

And the best thing you can do — especially during the long, grueling wedding planning process — is encourage and support us during our metamorphosis. Think of us as seedlings that need tending to. Or children. Yes. OK. Children it is.

Mark Davidson

Photography courtesy of Mark Davidson

THE CLOTHES

We’re wearing big boy pants now, so help us take the next big leap and get us into a more fashionable state of mind. Accompany your man on a Saturday outing to some trendy, men’s only clothing stores (key words: MEN’S and ONLY) and help him find a few new metrosexual ensembles that don’t compromise his manliness. Not only will he be dressing and looking better on a daily basis (a nice bonus for you, brides), but he may also learn to develop his own opinions about his wedding attire.

Yes, ladies, that means you get to delegate some responsibility. He gets to pick out his tie, and you get to cross one thing off your to-do list. It’s true wedding harmony.

THE STATE OF MIND

Believe it or not, there are ways to get your groom to start “thinking wedding” without polluting the rack in the bathroom with bridal magazines. (Trust me — he’s not reading them.)

The next time you and your groom attend a wedding of a friend or cousin or co-worker, be sure to pull him aside and ask him what he thinks of the design, the look, the colors, their choices. Did he like the centerpieces, or were they too much? Would he prefer something monochromatic? Less rustic? More subtle? Does he want to do something equally clever with the escort cards, or does he prefer a simpler, classier display? What did he enjoy about the wedding, and what would he have done differently?

And if you’re not planning on attending any nuptials in the next few months, ask your groom to walk you through the wedding that he envisions, step-by-step. He may resist at first, so begin with his likes and dislikes. If there’s one thing a groom can contribute without too much pressure, it’s his shortlist of DOs and DO NOTs. “DO have ceremony music. NOT from a dusty church organ. DO have sliders during cocktails. NOT just the vegetarian kind.”

THE EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT

Let’s be honest, ladies. Not every element in a wedding demands a conversation or an email or a headache. Some things can be accomplished simply and easily, and thank god for those rare but wonderful moments.

What’s important is that you communicate with your groom, be honest, and tell him which elements ARE important to you. If the invite design is keeping you up at night, let your groom know that it’s something you’re struggling with and that you’d like his input — particularly on this one design element. If it’s important to you, we’re more likely to get invested.

Yes, it’s manipulative, but we won’t hold it against you. Unless you abuse your power. Don’t, for instance, tell your groom that your ceremony footwear requires his immediate attention. He will call you on it. And I will say I told you so.

Now go on, brides. Get moving. Go metrosexual-ize. After all, our metamorphosis won’t happen overnight.

- Brian Leahy from The Groom Says -


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The Cost of Wedding Photography – A Photographer Series, part 4

Tuesday, March 16th, 2010

Welcome to the fourth installment of the my Kate Parker Wedding photography series!  If you’re new to this series, we have been discussing the many reasons why wedding photographers charge so much for their services.  We know what it’s like to salivate over samples of work from a particular photographer, and then to feel confused and shocked when you discover the price.  We don’t want you to feel ripped off, so we asked some of the best photographers to break down their costs for us.  So far, we’ve talked about Education/Experience, Marketing/Advertising, and Engagement Sessions.  Today, we’ll cover…

EQUIPMENT

We all know that the world of photography has drastically changed in the last decade.  Instead of shooting with rolls of film, everything is now digital.  Many people assume that equipment and processing costs have gone down since there’s no more rolls of film to process and everything is done on a computer.  Connecticut wedding photographer, Bruce Plotkin says this is a myth because:

“In the “film” days you could buy a professional camera with a few good lenses and if you took good care of them they could last you for ten years or more.  Today, if you’re lucky, the life span of a high end digital professional camera is three years.  And it doesn’t end there…the lenses keep getting better as well and are just as important (and often just as expensive) as the best cameras.  A photographer without the best and most current camera and lenses is simply not able to give the bride and groom the best results possible.”

So exactly how much is a professional camera and lenses going for these days?  Savannah wedding photographer, Scott Hopkins breaks it down for us:

“Professional grade digital cameras begin around $2,000 and go up to about $8,000.  Most professional lenses range in price from $1,200 to $2,500.  There are specialty lenses that a few wedding photographers use that cost upwards of $5,000.”

New Hampshire and Vermont wedding photographer, Paige Hiller also touches on this expense:

“Never the less, most photographers invest $3,000 to purchase a camera body and another $2,000 for a professional level lens.  Then consider, that in most professional wedding photographer’s camera bags you will find at least 2 camera bodies, 3 lens, 2 flash units and a tripod.  On average that little black bag that you see an assistant carrying could be an investment of $15,000.00.”

Unfortunately, a photographer’s costs don’t stop with cameras and lenses.  In addition, they need flashes, batteries, memory cards, backups and repairs; laptops, desktops, external hard drives, computer software, and websites to post proofing galleries, according to New Hampshire wedding photographer, Matthew Lomanno. For some photographers, “It is very rare to find great professional labs throughout the country,” say Paige Hiller.  Furthermore, she explains:

“Yes, they are still there, mostly in cosmopolitan areas, but if you live in Vermont like I do, they are getting harder to find.  Therefore, the majority of photographers do their own post production work. In order to set up a digital darkroom, you need a computer, computer programs to support your processing, and a color calibrator for your monitor, external hard drive to store your images, and a printer.

The costs can range from $10,000 and up to set up your basic digital darkroom.  And depending on if your photographer is set up as an archival studio the numbers will only increase.  For example, most cd/DVD that you buy on the consumer level will last maybe 3 to 5 years and then all those images will disappear.  However, if you purchase gold archival cd/DVD’s they will last at least 100 years.  A gold archival disc is made with a layer of gold that your images are imbedded in; this layer of metal prevents the images from disappearing over time as does the silver in the emulsion of film.”

Finally, Bruce Plotkin says it best as he emphasizes the importance of quality equipment when he says:  “The creative edge that the best equipment gives a talented shooter can make all the difference in the world with the end result.”

image above by Bruce Plotkin

image above by Scott Hopkins Photographer

image above by Paige Hiller Photography

image by Matthew Lomanno Photography

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New Hampshire Wedding Beauty: Tracy Hines Studio, in the Vendor Spotlight

Tuesday, March 16th, 2010

New Hampshire wedding beauty, Tracy Hines Studio, is featured in the vendor spotlight!  Tracy Hines shares some information about her studio, her work, and herself.  Check out Tracy Hines Studio in the spotlight today and on my Kate Parker Wedding.

Tracy Hines Studio

Number of years in business:

I have been a hair stylist & make-up artist for over 20 years. I developed my love for hair in my mother’s hair salon growing up. I developed my love of color also as a child with my paint brushes and pencils. I went to cosmetology school right after high school. I learned my passion for long hair design & make-up at a high end salon that I worked at for a few years before going out on my own.

Preferred wedding styles:
I really don’t have a preference but I’m excited to see vintage back in. Curling the hair, pinning it up in a loose bun or roll with loose curls tumbling down. And finishing off the look with a vintage hair accessories, veil or head band.  It’s the ultimate romantic look.

Tracy Hines Studio

Pricing Information:
Bridal packages start at $ 250 for hair only & $350 for hair & make-up on location.

What makes you stand out?
My years of experience in the beauty industry and my formal training in Art & Design.  As an artist I look at every angle & little detail when I’m working with a client.

What’s the favorite part of your work?
Being on location with the bride, along with her family & friends and being part of a very sacred moment in a couple’s life.

Tracy Hines Studio

If you have any spare time, how do you spend it?
My husband, son & I do a lot outdoors activities (camping, mountain biking, hiking, fly fishing). I love antiquing with my mom and hanging out with my dad at his lake house. I also love to cook and entertain with family & friends. While my son is at school I like to spend time in my garden or art studio.

Which charity(s) are you donating to and why?
The ASCPA, the JDRF, and The Pink Initiative.  I have had cats & dogs my whole life. My mother and I were always saving cats that were abandoned. We need to be a voice for those who can’t do it for themselves. Cancer has touched my life several times through my husband’s family and through clients of mine. I hope one day soon there will be a cure so no one has to go through the painful ordeal. I chose the Juvenile Diabetes Research, again in hopes for a cure to make life easier for children. It’s harder to understand as a child what is a happening to them, then it is as an adult.

Tracy Hines Studio

Tracy Hines Studio
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Wedding Tip of the Day by Diana Ma Weddings & Events

Tuesday, March 16th, 2010

New Hampshire wedding planner, Diana Ma for Diana Ma Weddings & Events provides some great advice on details that tend to get overlooked but can be quite expensive.  Check out Diana Ma’s liquor guide and know how much to order:

Although it is very gracious and generous to splurge on an open bar, where guests have access to unlimited drinks throughout the entire reception, it can also get very pricey. Expect to spend as much as 20% of your total wedding budget (on drinks alone!). There is no shame in offering a limited bar, where you provide a careful selection of drinks (such as, wine, beer and signature cocktails) at the bar during specific times, like cocktail hour and after dinner, then have waiters serve wine or beer during the meal…read more


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Rhode Island Wedding Photographer, Mark Davidson Places in 2009 WPJA Q4 Contest

Monday, March 15th, 2010

We are very excited to say that Rhode Island wedding photographer, Mark Davidson, placed in the 2009 WPJA contest!  We are so proud of our vendors for all of their accomplishments.  Congratulations to Mark Davidson on this achievement.

Boston Wedding Photographer Mark Davidson

See Mark Davidson on WPJA!

WPJA contest :

The 2009 Q4 Contest showcases the wedding photojournalism of WPJA members throughout the year in 16 categories. The WPJA’s quarterly competitions call for the very best in world-class wedding photojournalism, and then reward talent with unparalleled peer review by distinguished photojournalism judges, titles and professional recognition.

Info about WPJA.com :

The Wedding Photojournalist Association is a highly screened, critical organization. Less than %5 of wedding photographers out there qualify for membership.
The WPJA puts the world’s best wedding photography at your fingertips. We offer a new perspective on wedding photography – quietly capturing the real moments as they happen for the bride and groom.
It is our goal to use photography to tell the story of your wedding day, not dictate it for you.